A Walk to Remember Paul DiSenso: Father & Friend
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Shannon McCarley is raising money for Kara's Annual A Walk To Remember 2012 in honor of her father Paul DiSenso who passed away on December 18th, 2003.


Fundraising Amount=$250.00 ; Goal=$300.00
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Since 1976 Kara has been providing compassionate support to people of all ages on their journey through grief so that they can move toward renewed hope and meaning. Thank you for supporting Kara's Annual Walk to Remember on October 6, 2012.

Important: If you are going to be an official walker during the event, be sure to register hereIf you have already done so, thanks!






 
Shannon McCarley's Story

A young adult's remembrance of her father.

My father was a storyteller.  Every night while he was brushing my teeth he would weave a tale to pass the time.  A common subject was the character Liller and his brother Diller, two foolish rabbit hunters who were never able to outsmart their prey.  Each night ended the same way, with Liller and Diller running back to their cabin after a failed mission, slamming the door, and “not coming out for two weeks!” we would proclaim together, me mumbling around my toothbrush.  

There were other stories too, I am sure of it, but they are now just memories and memories fade.  My father has been dead for eight years and I can no longer remember what his voice sounded like.  Our times spent together creating magical adventures have blurred into the rest of my childhood.  There is one however, that has been preserved and it may be the most special of all.     

“Long ago in the little village of Atella, all the buttons in Mr. Devereux’s button bowl were happy, except one.”  This is the first line of The Littlest Button, just another story my father used to tell me.  The difference is he wrote it down.  It is four pages long, around one thousand words and still has his notes in the margins for he was a complete perfectionist.  While no mere paper and ink can ever replace him, when I read it I can imagine that I am curled up in his lap listening to his rich baritone.  Whenever I begin to panic that the past is slipping away from me and that I will truly lose him forever, this story gives me comfort.  

The title page reads The Littlest Button by Paul Di Senso.  To me it simply says, “love, Dad”.



Donors and Comments

James & Frieda DiSenso  gave $100.00 10/3/2012
"Paul,(Steve as he was known to the brothers growing up-middle name), was an older brother you could always count on. Before Shannon was born, he would come to visit and play games with our children; Jason and Jeramy. You could tell he loved children. When Shannon was born, she was all he would talk about. He was so happy to finally have a daughter of his own. She was the light of his life. Although many years have passed since he died, I still have many fond memories of growing up with my brother "Steve". His spirit will never die in the hearts of people who knew him. We were truely blessed to have known him."
Jeramy DiSenso  gave $100.00 9/30/2012
"Uncle Paul was the best uncle a nephew could ask for. He was a man I looked up to and the uncle that encouraged me to complete college. I used to write him letters and short stories and he would write me back and critique my stories. He was genuinely interested in my life and what I was involved in. For his example and influence I am eternally grateful I was blessed by such a man as Uncle Paul DiSenso. You are missed."
Jason DiSenso  gave $50.00 9/30/2012
"Paul DiSenso always fostered interest in creativity and learning. As a young boy, one of my most memorable experiences was our trip to the Exploratorium. Uncle Paul made it fun by being just as interested in the exhibits as we were. He always had a way of remembering our birthdays and giving us neat gifts that made us think or read. Of course, he can be credited with some of my insatiable desire to continually learn, observe, and understand. But probably Uncle Paul's most definitive qualities were his genuine interest in others and willingness to make you feel comfortable and loved. He seemed to continually try to find common ground and really seemed to enjoy the challenge. If I could achieve just a quarter of this quality that he had, I would feel as if I had accomplished something worthwhile. Thank you, Uncle Paul, for your kind interest in our lives and in helping make the world a better place. We love you. Jason, Jennifer, & Sophia"